What to do about my girlfriend hanging out with her "guy" friend? Question: Me and my girlfriend are 16 years old. She lives an hour away and I dont get to she her but like 3 times a week. Other relationship hasn't been going too well lately and you will see what I mean when you read our text message conversation this morning before school:
Me: good morning baby. i love you. sorry i fell asleep last night.
Her: its ok. love you too.
Me: what are you doing?
Her: getting dressed.
Me: Ooh :) lol
Her: yea
Me: i miss you.
Her: i miss you too. what are you doing?
Me: on my way to school. freezing in this car.
Her: haha. wesley said he has his heat on and that we wont freeze.
Me: i wouldnt but i messed my truck up and have to ride with my mom.
Her: Haha
Me: not funny. i hope to get a new one soon.
Her: Cool
Me: love you
Her: love you too
Me: what you doing now?
Her: In poplar bluff (a big town next to her town)
Me: Cool? why you there?
Her: just me and wesley ummm... hanging out.
Me: ok? i wish you would tell me before you do stuff like that.
Her: i just did. are you thinking something.
Me: no but i want to know if you are skipping school and hanging out with friends.
Her: so
Me: i just want to know ok
Her: ok.
Me: if you ever do something, i just want to know ok, just like you would want to know.
Her: ok
Me: yea, i just want to know
Her: ok gage
Me: yea
Her: i mean, we didnt do anything. we are just on the back roads. now we are parked watching a field.
Me: i dont like that you are parked on a back road
Her: why?
Me: cause i dont!
Her: why?
Me: just cause. i dont like that you are riding around with some guy that i dont know on the "back roads" and now you are parked. i just dont!
Her: you are thinking something bad
Me: no i am not. i know you wouldnt do anything but when you tell your boyfriend you are riding around on the back roads with some guy and yall are parked in a field...thats not something i want to hear or want you to do.
*Then she didnt text me back. I texted her hey and she didnt text me back for about 5 hours and then she texts back and says what when i said hey. *
I dont like her doing that. I do not trust her cause she cheated on me once in the past, but i forgave her. Why do you think she is doing this to me. She knows that I do not like her riding around with other guys and skipping school. I think she was cheating on me again but I cant just come out and ask if she was cheating. What do i do?
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