Question, im not sure if i want to stay with him....? Question: Ok, im 16, he is 15, in the same grade and everything.
We have been dating for like a month. Well it will be two months in two weeks. (:
But im not sure if i want to stay with him cause i love him, or because i just want a boyfriend. he is the first boyfriend i ever had.
I mean lately things between us have changed. We dont really have anything to talk about. But we do have a lot in commen.
Before we went out we would text non stop, and always have something to say. But for the last two weeks, we really havent said much to each other.
And since its winter we dont really get to hang out. (he has a season pass to mount kato (a place where you can go tubing, skieng, or snowboarding in Minnesota, Mankato) So he is ussually doing that) So he cant really text me during that. And during this summer i will be living in my other house in the country, so we will be further away. But i will have my car. But I will also be busy with teaching my horse how to pole bend, and getting the other horse were getting in spring used to its new surroundings, and training her to jump.
But i just dont know what do. I mean i know we dont really talk even when we are hanging out. But him just being there is enough. i know for a fact he doesnt want me to break up with him. and i dont want to. But isnt it bad that we dont really talk. I told him that we never really have anything to talk about. and he keeps saying we will find something. and haha he is making me learn how to snowboard. So me and my friend (this other guy is making her learn to) are gonna learn together.
Answer:
i know how you feel. I think u should give him more time
i'm in a relationship for 2 years n we dont get to see each other a lot but we started off like you guys did wouldn't stop talking on the phone will in ur case texting.... n since u really dont' want to break up with him i think u should give this relationship more time =)
best wishes to u
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