Anyone have advise for my guy trouble? Question: There's this guy Austin that I went to school with my junior and senior years of high school, and we had never really hung out until the summer after I graduated. It was like summer hit, and bam! All of a sudden we were inseparable, spending every day together.
He would text me at 6:00 am every morning when he went to work and try to wake me up. Or he would call me and actually wake me up. I would go over to his house and he would always sit right next to me, making sure that we were touching somehow.
I actually started to like him, and we became really good friends. To the point that we knew exactly what the other was doing when we weren't with each other. I even had to get unlimited text messaging because we would text each other so much lol. Anyway, I finally got up the nerve to tell him that I liked him one night, and we agreed we needed to talk. Basically because I was leaving for college in Florida at the end of the summer. We never actually got around to that talk, but we did get more 'involved' with each other. We started to hug a lot, cuddling on the couch watching movies, just stroking each others' hands, that sort of thing.
I started getting frustrated because he still hadn't kissed me yet. Why was he so hesitant to make the first move? I've never been in a relationship before so I was just winging it lol, but he seemed like he was waiting for me. So finally, the night before I left for Florida I told him to get his ass over to my house. Then when he got out of his car I wrapped my arms around him and kissed him. It lasted awhile, and it was perfect. Sadly, the perfect goodbye...
Now I'm in Florida and he's still in Minnesota. We talk to each other everyday whether it's on the phone, text messaging or IM-ing. He's actually planning to visit me sometime around Thanksgiving, and I take it that's a good sign. I'm just confused because I really miss him and I'm not sure if it's going to go anywhere. He said that he's attracted to me and all that, but I don't know if he wants an actual relationship or not. I want one, but the long-distance thing is killing me. It's hard too because I miss home so much that I sometimes feel that I should move back and go to a college closer to home. At the same time Ringing College of Art and Design, where I go to school right now, is the best for Computer Animation. I want to go here, it's the best education I can get, but everyone I love is back home in Minnesota.
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I know this isn't much of a question so much as me blurting out my emotions and troubles, but ANY advise or insights would be wonderful! :D
Answer:
i think you guys should try having a long distance relationship if you trust each other a lot and if you guys do then i think everything will work out! :)
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